I don’t understand some people.
I know a girl who falls in love at the drop of a dime. She is in love with love. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be in love and to share that with someone. Everyone deserves to find that.
My concern lies in the fact, that after just shy of 3 months…her and her partner have already set a move in date.
How do you really know someone after 3 months?? You are still in the honey moon stage of your relationship. Everything is amazing…you are having so much fun getting to know each other…and the sex is mind blowing. I KNOW how it feels to be on cloud 9 at the beginning of any relationship.
But do you really know that person in 3 months? Do we really show our true selves within that time? After a while, all those cute things your partner does may become somewhat annoying. You don’t really “know” this person…never mind what it would be like to live with them.
Is it really true? Do lesbians really have a U Haul attached to their asses???
Not this one.
Whatever happened to dating…being in a committed relationship without the sudden urge to play house???
I understand that it works for some people. I understand the theory of love at first sight. I understand that feeling of not wanting to spend a day without seeing the face of the person you are with.
But seriously…what’s the rush???? Do people understand the level of commitment it involves taking up house together? If you intend on spending the rest of your days with that person…why the urgency? I know an argument can be made for the other side of the coin..that if you know this is the one, why NOT just do it.
I’ve had 2 live in partners. Although I was madly in love I also had the sense to wait. I waited over a year with both relationships…really got to know them. How we handled arguments…learned eachother’s behaviours…got to know them as the people that they are without the love blinders on. Obviously waiting the year did not help my first long term relationship….but i honestly believe that had we not waited, it would have ended much sooner. This of course is all just my opinion.
I guess to each their own…but it just drives me a little batty that people jump into things so quickly!!!
Am I wrong here???
I am sure it’s not just a lesbian thing…I’ve seen it in straight people too. I just wonder why…
